I wouldn’t be me if I didn’t add some numerology to this situation
S O H E R E’ S T H E T H I N G A B O U T O F F S E T aka Kiari Kendrell Cephus. With his type of lifestyle and employment, he needs a level of discipline unmatched by his colleagues in order for his personal life/marriage to be successful. His bornday is 12/14/1991 and his life path number is 10/1. So he battles freedom over discipline often, sometimes several times a day. He struggles with being a good leader that is diligent with great work ethic vs freedom and how he bounces back from unexpected change or extreme overindulgence. Being that he is born on the 14th day, in numerology that number is considered a karmic debt number which means that in a previous lifetime there was overindulgence and addictions in drugs, sex, alcohol, freedom, or chaotic situations OR this is something his soul requires him to learn and grow from for ascension.
So in this lifetime he is being tested to see how well he deals with the need for discipline vs the need for freedom. Its like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde and can be quite confusing for him at times. So first things first, he will have to be honest about his addiction to sex. Listen, it happens and it is a real thing but seeking trusted counseling really will bring light to how he views love and how he views sex.
Often times people with a 14 life path number (Beyonce), 14 day of birth, or those that have “N” as the first letter of their name can sometimes find it difficult to put to clear boundaries to really understand what love vs sex vs romance really means to them – and often times those three words have just 1 feeling – SEX – and getting to the root of it all can help those dealing with 14 energy in a beautiful way. And honestly, being that this is a Karmic debt number once the lessons are learned, the blessings are HUGE.
And just a quick side note, Cardi’s life path number is 15/6 so she loves love, but she loves chaotic love. If they are going to last, the break up to make up scenario will need to be null and void, they will need to deal with their issues more privately, and they both will need to seek counseling to really understand what true love means to themselves individually and to one another.
And just another note and something to keep in mind – the number 5 is a highly sexual number anyway so if you have a life path number of 5, 14, 15, 23, 25, 32, 35, 41, 45, 50, 55, if you are born on a 5, 14, 15, 23, 25 day, or if your name begins with E, N, W, the need for sex is almost like medicine and could be an addiction for you too, depending on the other numerical vibrations surrounding you.
Lastly, there is absolutely nothing wrong with having a huge appetite for sex. It only becomes an issue when you don’t have control over your urges that causes you to be reckless with your well-being and interpersonal relationships.
And not to bring R. Kelly in this but his life path number is 14/5….. anywho, cheers!